Birthdays are always exciting. While some may not admit it, most individuals actually look forward to their birthdays. April is my birth month. I’ll be turning 33 this year.
My birthday happens every 29th day of April. It may be the last weekend of the month, but the celebration normally starts on the first weekend. I have different sets of friends so as much as I want to have one big party on my birthday, it’s not advisable since it will be very stressful to jump from one table to another just to attend to different groups of friends/family. I feel like one night is not enough to catch up and talk/laugh about the same usual jokes/funny moments that we keep on talking about over and over and yet still laugh about endlessly. Besides, not all of my friends are alcohol drinkers. So I would normally spend time with them over coffee.
Some weekends of the month may also be allotted to "surprise" parties/gatherings. Well, they're supposed to be surprises, but how could they still be when a friend whom I didn’t get a chance to talk to for almost a year suddenly calls with excuses like, "I need to borrow something" or "can you accompany me to..."?
The awkward moment when I need to pretend that I’m buying their alibis, moments when I need to look totally surprised to see friends waiting for me at the place where I was told that I needed to be. (Oh well, I still love it :)).
Anyway, this year, I might just change everything. I noticed that as I aged, the clubbing, partying and the never-ending line of custom shot glasses filled with different boozes just don't entice me anymore. This year, celebration will only happen on just one weekend -- good thing the 29th will fall on a Sunday. It’ll be just family on that day. Friends? Maybe some other day, but definitely no party, just a simple dinner or coffee will do. Besides, I’m trying to save up to buy another car.

So, no more four-weekend birthday celebration for me, no more drink-till-you-drop nights, no more lavish spending, just a simple yet memorable day with the family. Anyways, being with the family just makes everything complete. Oh, I may still accept surprise parties though.
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